A Belief Is Just a Thought You Keep Thinking...


When's the BEST time to plant a tree?  20 years ago.  When's next best time?  RIGHT NOW!  I just heard this in a seminar this week and it's SO true!  It's not too late to DO what you should've DONE!!  It's not too late to be the person you always knew you could be.  Believe in yourself.  One of my favorite quotes from Abraham Hicks is... "A belief is just a thought you keep thinking."  Change your story, change your beliefs about yourself right now if they are not the beliefs that make you the best you, the happiest you, the most empowered you that YOU can be. I'm in the process of learning how to do this for myself and it's amazing how much happier I feel throughout my days.  If you learn how to love yourself MORE...not from an "ego" place, from a place that makes you BELIEVE that you're worthy, that you're capable, that there's nothing that can stop you from living the life others only dream about.  The only person holding you back is you.

Think of something you KNOW you should have started a long time ago.  Take a moment to think back when you were younger...what were your dreams?  What did you WANT out of life?  So many people lost sight of their dreams...so much so that they forget what they were or that they even had them because "life gets in the way".  Most people can say what they don't want instead of what they do want.  That's okay!  That's actually a great place to start.  By knowing what you don't want....you can decide what you do want.  That's the first step.  That's the beauty in the "contrast" we have in life...without it we wouldn't be able to truly LIVE our dreams.

Do something different today....change your story today....make a list of all the things you WANT out of life today...and watch what the universe starts to deliver.

How the "Cuddy Pose" can increase your chances for success!


I first heard of the Cuddy Pose on Ted Talks...Have you seen TED talks?  I only started watching them since we've had Netflix...they are a non-profit devoted to Ideas Worth Spreading.  Many of the TED talks I've seen are very interesting but I saw one recently that really spoke to me.  It was a talk by Social Psychologist Amy Cuddy and she demonstrates this...Don't fake it until you make it, fake it until you BECOME it! She explains how assuming a power pose...imagine Wonder Woman standing confidently with her hands on her hips...for just two minutes can change the levels of testosterone and cortisol in the body SIGNIFICANTLY.  It was amazing the scenarios that they put people in that proved this is true!  Her own story was really moving...how much she has accomplished in her life when the odds were stacked against her and everyone told her what she COULDN'T do.  Well, she faked it until she BECAME it...and now she's teaching others to do it too...at Harvard!

We know that body language can impact the way OTHERS see us....but can it impact the way we see OURSELVES?  She proves this by running tests that show a significant change in the brain's chemistry after only TWO minutes of just holding a simple pose!  This is such a great tool that I wish I would've known about sooner!

The next time you feel like you need a confidence boost, put your arms up in the air over your head or open your arms in any way for 2 minutes!  Here is the full video, take the 20 minutes out of your life to watch it.... it just might change your life!!

http://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_are?language=en

I think you will find it extremely interesting and useful...it might just have an impact on your chances for success!

Amy Cuddy demonstrating a power pose.  The Cuddy Pose.